It’s a given fact that couples who are dating lie to each other 33 percent of the time. There is a actually a full fledged research carried out by Texas A&M University stating that couples usually tell white lies which are mostly harmless and are based on emotions, opinions, personal accomplishments and other aspects that prove themselves to be better or the best version of themselves.
Women do it and do it unconventionally, as they lie about things they have done or haven’t done. Sometimes it brings in the feel good factor, other times it’s just to make the partner see their flawless side (right!) and believe it or not, it really works most times.
There are certain things women like to keep under wraps and lie about, to make them feel a bit in charge and less vulnerable. As smart as she may be, you can actually catch her lie or just know she’s doing a good number on you because more often than not, the lies spun are quite similar (from one woman to another). Let’s break them down for you!
‘Nay, I Wasn’t Into My Last Boyfriend’
Men, if your girl has dated her last boyfriend for more than three moths, it’s a given she was into him. It doesn’t really matter why they broke up but they survived each other for longer than a month and if she’s been there, she’s lying about her feelings towards her ex. She may not have them now but she certainly did before. If she says that after coming out of a two year old relationship, God bless ya soul!
‘I Haven’t Given Head To More Than One Guy’
Pfft! That’s not really true. I hope you know that? Let’s see how we can figure. How long did it take her to go down on your junk? The first time? The second? Well, even if it’s after three attempts it means she has given head way many times before. Also figure the technique she uses. You will obviously know how good she is or how experienced she is by her actions. If you’re a novice, well good luck to you then!
‘Nope! Never Faked It ‘
That my friend is the biggest lie ever told. I am not negating the fact that women don’t orgasm. Yes, they do but faking it for a woman is a lot easier when you’ve already unloaded your spunk during sex. Sometimes it takes a while for a woman to orgasm or a particular position to reach climax and if she doesn’t get the gift of time or positioning, she might just give up and act her part out. My advice- a little vocal reinforcement can go a long way! It takes care of the fraudulent climax sometimes. You can also slow down a tad perhaps?
‘Oh We’re Just Friends’
Sometimes they’re just friends and sometimes they’re more than friends. I mean your girlfriends male BFF might not have any sort of romantic feelings towards her but they sure as hell are tight and love to cuddle about occasionally. She may downplay their dynamic in front of you just so you don’t feel bad. If your girl has a male BFF, there sure as hell is some form of platonic intimacy.
I’ve Only Slept With Two Men Before You’
Maybe she has but if she is a little wary about sharing her number with you, you know there have been definitely more than two men. Women usually downplay their number of sexual interactions to protect the feelings of the man they’re with. If you’re really into your girl her actual number may scare you or play havoc in your head silently. So it’s okay if she has to white lie her way into this one, unless you want all the gory deets. Godspeed.
‘You’re The Biggest I Have Been With & You’re The Best Sex Of My Life’
Guys Guys, quit being naïve? Okay, giving her the benefit of the doubt, you might be the biggest and the best but I am sure she has compared your size and your capacity to someone else from her past. Unlike vaginal tightness, penis size isn’t something you can do much about, so making her man feel good about himself is her solemn duty. Look at it this way, this lie is so bad, it’s actually good!
Of Course I Don’t Find Your Friend(s) Hot; He’s Not My Type
There has to be one good looking lad in your pack and it’s inevitable for your girl to find him super hot. She might tell you he’s not her type and that you’re way hotter. That’s the thing my friend, women like to nip a man’s insecurity in the bud! That’s a given. It’s well attempted though. This also gives her a free ticket to flirt with your hot male friend(s), after she’s established she doesn’t find them attractive. It’s all harmless, trust me.
These are the main set of white lies your woman may say once a while, to protect your feelings and keep your interests in her healthy. Take it with a pinch of salt and think of it as an attempt from her end to make you feel rather special. It’s the black lies you should be catching and holding onto, not these!
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