While you may seem to think you’ve mastered the art of sexual intercourse, there are many women we’re sure about, who vehemently deny your brutish stance! Take it in writing from any woman if she hasn’t cringed at some things you may be doing wrong in bed. Okay, let us put this more accurately and a bit more politely for you. While you may seem to think you’re God’s gift to women (which could be true), there are some things women hate in bed and they may not tell you about it, to keep your manhood intact!
So if you know these things before hand and not do them instead or substitute them with something more innovative and fresh, you’ll probably win a lot more brownie points in bed, than you do now. So sit back, relax, wipe that frown off of your face and yes, thank us later!
Stop Choke-Slamming Her Neck
Yeah, most men do that. When she’s going down on your junk, don’t direct her mouth by pushing her head down, holding her neck etc! That’s more than a bit annoying and not required. Women usually know which direction to ‘head’ to, so don’t direct them abruptly. If you gotta do it, be gentle, dude!
The Backdoor Needs Permission
Never, ever explore the backdoor without permission. What we mean is, seek permission from your woman before you initiate anal sex. While the concept of anal sex might be fascinating for you, it may not be a joy ride for her. It’s painful and there are a lot of things to keep in mind before she takes it in the butt. You definitely can’t explore that area without enough lube. So to do that, she needs to know you want to head in that direction and she needs to be mentally and physically prepared. Don’t just slip it in when she’s bent down for you in doggy style.
Repeatedly Asking Her If She Has Cum
Relax boys. Repeatedly asking your girl if she has cum, when you’ve just started thrusting isn’t cool. Women take time to feel their nerve endings react to your penis and stimulate their mind with pleasure. So give them that time, can you? Pressurising her into cumming isn’t gonna get you or her anywhere. We get you’re trying to be gentlemanly to make sure she cums before you but try the art of holding your horses and giving her time to reach her own climax.
Foreplay Is Important
Unless you’re Hritik Roshan, don’t skip foreplay. You know because you need to heat the oven before you bake your goods, mate! So start with gentle foreplay. Kiss, nibble, suck and graze. Do what you feel will get her all hot and happening. As shy as they may seem, women love being given head. So initiate some good foreplay and she’s all yours. Taking a direct plunge is only good when you are both mighty drunk or want a quickie.
Her Vag Isn’t An Archaeological Site
Seriously guys, you really don’t need to dig deep down her vag or give her clit a frictional burn! We know you know your s**t but since the clitoris is a gentle area, treat it gently. You don’t need to go ape-shit crazy down there with your fingers or your fist! Try tapping her down there in circular motions first. If she wants it harder, she’ll tell you!
Your Finger Is Not A Penis
Yes, repeat this to yourself till you understand that your finger, indeed, is not your third arm! Don’t jam your fingers in and out like you’re thrusting with your penis. Instead use the magic and evolution of dexterity and opposable thumbs to move your fingers around her clit, gently! Your fingers can actually do things your penis can’t. So you sure as hell can use that to your advantage. It’s not really a ‘pin the donkey’s tail’ kinda game down there!
Listen To Her
We mean, listen to her when you’re inside her! If she wants you to go at a particular motion or speed, respect that. It will make your job much easier, trust us. Don’t be in a hurry to nut. You don’t want to end the show without a proper ending, do you? So when she says things like ‘harder’, ‘do it just like that’ or ‘take it slow’, be attentive and listen.
No Room For Bad Dirty Talk
If you’re good at talking dirty, then go for it. If you suck at it, please stop. Women hate baby talk or deliberate dirty talk. It’s okay to be silent during sex if you’re good at what you’re doing. Pro tip: Your moans turn the heat up a notch for sure!
Don’t Ask, Google Or Reddit!
We mean, no two women are similar in bed. They probably will like and dislike different things. Women hate it when you assume what they like or have in bed. They also hate your half-baked knowledge from the interweb! So stop Googling sex facts about what she likes and dislikes and ask her straight up instead. She’ll appreciate it.
If you avoid a few of these things, then you’re definitely scoring a lot more than just sex! Don’t assume what women want and like, just spend time in understanding their body and their mind a bit! Also, stop playing awful loud music during sex. It’s not cool, bro.
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