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Here’s How You Can Become The Master Of Sexting Without Creeping Your Girl Out

Sexting. It’s the new millennial version of dirty talk but with a pinch of aesthetics and grace …or not! If you’ve just started dating someone you can definitely turn the hotness quotient up a notch and turn a casual conversation with your date into a sexy banter and perhaps become the ultimate sexting master yourself!

Sexting can usually lose its connotation and develop a bad rapport amongst people who usually love being vanilla. But people seldom forget that if it’s used as the right tool to communicate anything sexual to your partner, it can turn flirting into foreplay and take the relation to another level altogether. If you intelligently convey your deepest wildest fantasy to your partner in the form of sexting and make her share hers with you, isn’t that the healthiest way to get to know each other’s sexual stride? We believe it’s an absolute positive form of passive porn!

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The thing with sexting is though, if it goes wrong and is taken in the wrong context, it can totally crash your plane. To make it less cringe-inducing and awkward, maybe you can read on, get some healthy sexting tips and achieve your goal of sexting the lights out of your woman.

Sexting starts slowly. You don’t want to rush and make your partner awkward at first. After all, it’s an art, not a morning boner that needs to go down pronto. You don’t really jump right into getting someone to talk dirty to you. You ease into it. You seduce slowly and when the arousal is equal, you get down to rolling those dirty words off your tongue. Trust us, the slower it develops, the faster she wants you right next to her.

Also, sexting is not just about sending or asking for nudes! We reckon you leave that for later when the buildup has already been established. Use your words till then. Women get turned on reading your thoughts, more than looking at your junk at times. Besides you never know how she would react to seeing your crotch on her screen before even initiating a kinky dialogue with her!

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Ever wondered where sexting can go wrong, or has in the past with you? Well to begin with, you can’t sext someone who doesn’t really reciprocate like you want them to. You might start your conversation with ‘I had this dream about you last night…’ and the girl may be like ‘oh nice! Hope I didn’t trouble you in it’ and just leaves it right there. That’s a clear indication that she’s not really interested in roaming pleasureville with you. If she asks you about the dream implicitly, then you definitely have a winner. Don’t push it though. It’s a major turn off for most women! The reciprocity makes the exchange all the more exciting. So maybe wait it out till when she’s ready for some down time with you.

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Something that can make for a successful sexting session is your words and your imagination probably. It’s a thriving factor for sure. Long ago, before we had camera phones, sexting still existed. It wasn’t called sexting obviously, it was just plain ol’ dirty talk and people did it beautifully, without any graphic content. So use your words to the best of your ability. Fill her head with the irresistibility that is you, just through your word game. It would be a good idea not to use too many emoji’s (like why would you want a monkey covering his face – emoji, while you sext someone?) and for the love of everything dear to you DO NT RITE LYK DIS! Build a story first. Talk about how you’ve just come back from a mean workout and you’re all sweaty. Trust us she’ll smell your pheromones through her phone, if you use your words right!

Well, we’re not negating the fact that videos and pictures are an intrinsic part of sexting. Of course there should be enough written content before you start being graphic or illustrious. The art of sending nudes is directly proportionate to the art of using the right words. There should be a build up here too. Don’t just send her crotch pictures and ask her for her boobs in return. What’s the hurry mate? Send her pictures with some aesthetics and then bring out the big guns. Sooner or later, you’ll have a gallery named after her, on your phone!

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As fun as sexting can be, it can get a little out of hand too. One cardinal rule is to practice safe sext. If you’re exchanging words, pictures and videos, practice deleting this content regularly as well. Perhaps keeping things suggestive and not too explicit minimizes any sort of threat. Even if there is explicit content on your phone, protect it well with a password, to prevent any sort of leakage.

Setting these risks aside, sexting can be worth it! If you ace it, you can definitely have it as an exciting advantage to all your sexual adventures in the future, with your partner.

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Source of news : Mensxp

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